Wednesday, April 1, 2009

HIS FIRST OUTING

We brought him to SACC Mall, Shah Alam yesterday. Momma and Dadda had to shop some groceries. Since about 44 days the house was nobody resided, so, fridge kat rumah sangatlah empty. Now, perlu diisi apa yang patut. Plus, we wanna buy toys for Oman. SACC ada Anakku..bolehla ;P

Truthfully, me and my hubby was so unsure if Oman's ready for this outing or not. That's why we decided to shop at SACC, closest to home. Kalau dia meragam, xla jauh sangat nak balik rumah. That was his first time riding his stroller. Would he like it?

Oman was chill at the earliest. He was quiet in his stroller yang ditolak Dadda.


First stop was at Secret Recipe. Momma and Dadda not yet took our lunch. Dah pukul 4 ok masa tu. Oman's chilling in his stroller masa kitorang makan.



Towards the end of our lunch, Oman started to hek hek. Momma cepat-cepat comfort him. Yeah, it's his sleeping time.

One thing about Oman if he's sleepy, he needs swing. Asal usul why he needs that adalah kerana, dia dah terbiasa bila nak tidur, Dadda or Momma have to cuddled him and henjut dia until he's sleeping. Pulak tu, bila letak je kat bed or his cot, he will terjaga balik. Oman bukan baby yang bila ngantuk will sleep by himself. So, Tukbah and Opah dia kat Perak tu kesian tgk Momma and Dadda dah kurus asyik nak kene henjut Oman bila nak tido (;P), so, depa hadiahkanla swing. Bila dah terbiasa, xde swing Oman xleh tido. Nak tido atas katil pun 3,4 kali attempt, inikan pula baru first time duduk dalam stroller.

Alamak, ...mana nak cari swing kan kat tengah2 SACC tu. So, i pun tepuk-tepukla dia dengan harapan dia boleh tidur dalam his stroller tu. Tapi Oman x reti. So, he started crying loudly. Merajuk kot. Mujurla SACC tu x ramai orang sgt. We lepak at a bench dekat level 3. Oman nangis x berhenti dah. Kesian dia. Momma and Dadda gilir-gilir cuddled and try to comfortkan Oman.

Groceries x beli lagi. Hmm..last-last we decided that, i stayed kat bench tu with Oman. Dadda pulak run beli the groceries.

Huh! Sungguh mencabar. Oman 3 kali terlelap in my hands..tapi bila letak jer dalam his stroller, he cried again. Bukan cry-cry biasa tu. So pity my son. Mesti dia penat menangis macam tu.
Isk Isk.



When Dadda finished with the groceries thingy, kitorang cepat-cepat balik. Xde dah Anakku semua tu. Cancelled!!

Oman, still menangis until we reached home, he chilled back. But he looked so tired. Kesiannyer. His eyes merah-merah. Momma cepat-cepat bersihkan Oman, and masukkan dalam his swing. Memang betul Oman letih..Masuk je boyan, terus ZZZZ. Pastu, Kali ni we transfered him from the swing to his cot sekali try je. Oman tido terus sampai pagi. Bangun pun 2 kali jer for milk-milk. Itupun with his eyes closed.

Hmm...maybe Oman belum ready. So, Momma and Dadda decided not to bring Oman jalan-jalan until him ready. But persoalannya, bila? If like this, Momma and Dadda worry nak bring him out if ada event ke, kenduri ker, gi shopping ke, tgk dadda dia bersukanke (Adoi..dahla kami ni kaki jalan..;P)

Readers, who has experienced;
Is there anything can be done so that i can retrain Oman to sleep by himself? So that he doesn't need the swing?
Any tips to make the baby sits in his stroller longer and comfort?
When is actually the suitable time for baby's first outing? 2 months old? 6 months old?

Appreciate advice.....





12 comments:

  1. sis..
    mcm my son mmg dh dilatih tido without swing..
    dh kenyang je terus tido..i think u kena try by now lah..try not to swing him anymore..but of course susah skit kan sbb dh biase..

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  2. Hi MamaRayyan,
    Agree.
    I'm thinking the same also.
    Maybe he will cry awal-awal ni sebab dah used to tido berswing. I have to retrain him sleep by himself. Me antara sampai hati or not la..
    Kene kuat jugak. DOakan ye.

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  3. Hi awak,
    Agree with MamaRayyan.. awak kena train Oman dari awal not to depend on the swing.. imran pun kalau ngantuk saya susukan.. pastu bila dah terlelap saya angkat atas bahu utk burp.. and die terus tido.. kalau dah letak dlm cot and dia terjaga.. saya just dukung and dodoikan..Alhamdulillah, it works for him.. kena kuat semangat wak.. if not susah nnt..

    Outing mmg mencabar wak..1st outing Imran to Subang Parade aje.. itu pun masa die tgh tido&dah kenyang br saya bawak die keluar.. but 2 months old should be ok bawak keluar.. mungkin kebetulan Oman nak tido masa awak bawak die keluar,itu yg meragam skit..

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  4. Huhu...tula awak..tengah kumpul semangat ni.

    Saya memang nekad nak start to change Oman's routine starting today.
    Saya terbayang, katakanla pegi holiday ke, balik umah sedara mara ke, takkanla nak kemana-mana with the swing kan.

    Thanks wak :)

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  5. Don't worry wak.. you can do it!!
    heheh

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  6. sungguh informatif bacaan komen2 dari Ibu2 hebat..

    Tapi nuuril, nanti masalah gak nak retrain bila dah biasa kenyang je tidor..

    I sampai besar camtu...

    :p

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  7. uit momma mia..aku nad! been reading ur blog since oman's birth..xsabor nk tgk photo anak ko..heheh

    nway, aku pun setuju ngan mommies kat sini. hadif dulu mmg dh train supaya tido tepuk2 je. sbb kitorg pon sememangnye kaki jalan..patah kaki la kan kalu baby asik meragam nk buai je..

    few tips from aku -
    first, ko kene set up routine time tido oman. so that bila time die nap or sleep die akan automatically sleepy n xla payah sgt nk dodoi lama2..

    then, create la 1 lagu khas..lullaby everytime die nk tido..kalu ko cipta sendiri make sure rhythm die setara je..means xde la memula ballad, pastu pop pastu tetiba rock plak..heheh so, everytime die dgr lagu tu die tau that's his time to sleep..

    n last skali, just experience aku nk share..hadif dulu die selesa tido meniarap..so bila die nk tido aku tiarapkan die, tepuk2 blakang die n nyanyi lagu tido die. masa die baby2 dulu mmg lena je die tido meniarap tu n kuang terkejut2..even dlm stroller pon kitorg tiarapkan die..tapi kene slalu check laa kalu baby tido meniarap ni..takut suffocate ke ape kan..kalu tido mlm tu jgn la biarkan plak. once baby dh tido tu kite baringkan semula on his back..sbb slalu mlm mmg major ZZzzz time for babies =)

    so, good luck beb!

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  8. Cik Buih: Kekekekekeke. Kalau sampai besar macam tu jugak, wajib dirotan ok. Kekeke

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  9. Nad,
    rindu kat ko :)

    Aku apprecite sangat tips-tips kot tuh. Sekarang ni, memang ape saja cadangan yang membantu, aku akan cuba. Seriously, Aku tanak Oman meragam tiap kali outing. Galmour pulak budak tu kang ;P

    Oman dah terbiasa dgn buai 2 minggu dah. Aku hope aku x lambat lagi nak retrain dia. Uish, tapi dugaannyer mmg hebat, dia punya mengamuk tanak tido, sebab x dapat buai (aku try tadi). Dia tunjuk perasaan. Meronta-ronta. Last-last aku bedung je. Tidolah dia. Sejam jela tapi. Pastu bangun dah meragam balik.

    Aku mmg kene kuat ni..huhu...

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  10. SAlam Nuurill..

    Siannya..izu tade xperience sgt sbb mmg xbiasakn zahin tdo dlm buai..iris pon samala sbb mmg my mom dh pesan, once bby pki buai mmg depa nk buai..klu tdk mmg depa xleh tdo..lgpon mmg ssh kn klu pki buai..nk kene bwk klu nk kemana2..

    It's ok..juz train him slowly..n give him a time..insya Allah Oman bley tu..cuma lmbt or cpt je la kn..u must be strong k! go momma, go!:)

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