Thursday, June 18, 2009

BABYSITTER

Monday. 6 am in the morning.
I opened my eyes lazily. I checked my babies. Yang little sedang nyenyak..yang x little apetah lagi. I laid my body next to Oman. I kissed his cheek. Sayu..



That day was the day, the first day we sent him to a babysitter. A 52 years old lady who is babysitting since 1994. She's staying in TTDI Jaya SA with her sister and 3 helpers. Makcik Rosiah is a single mother. So does her sister.

A day before, me and my hubby visited her house. Ramai betol budak-budak. Rupa-rupanya some of them ada yang dah masuk kindergarten, some in primary school, but still bila ada masa esp school hiday kan, they will come to spend time with their Nenek Rosiah. I see that as a point. Kids love her. Entering her clean house, each kids are having their own cot, while the babies are located in different room. Baby ade 3 je termasuk Oman. That's another point. According to Makcik Rosiah, Oman will be the youngest, and the last baby she'd agree to take care. Cumulating all those positive points, then we both agree, this place is the best for Oman at this moment. We pray hard that we're not making wrong decision..

So, i was supposed to work on that day. Tapi naluri keibuan dah suruh i joined my hubby cuti walaupun i just 2 weeks started my new job. Urgent Leave.. i texted my superior and he replied OK. Meloncat kegembiraanla momma Oman.

That morning, my parents went back to Perak after 2 weeks staying with us taking care of Oman. Owh, TukBah and Opah Oman mmg sungguh berat hati masa nak balik pagi tu, but nak buat cemana kan, they have their work responsibilities too. To abah and mama and adik2, Kyung nak ucapkan thanks sangat2 for all the concerns, helps and all. Tak taula macamana KakYung nak balas semua ni. Huhu. Love u all.

Tot..Tet..Tot..Tet.. we were ready to send Oman at 10.30 am. Nasib baik x cancel. I pujuk my hubby xyah send Oman on that day cause we were not working. "Lerrrr... kalau x hantar, how we gonna know that Oman is ok or not. Elokla we both cuti, then if anything like Oman meragam ke, non-stop cryingke, we both have time to speed there". Hmm, sungguh bernas hujahan suami. Daku pasrah.



Macam nak pegi asrama pulak barang Oman



Ready Oman?... Momma yang x ready...


Well, reaching Makcik Rosiah's house, Oman was so relax. Me?..i could still control myself. Even at the moment i passed him to them. Saw them cuddling Oman. Then i didn't want to stay there longer. I don't want i end up taking back Oman and bring home. So, i cium-cium him, hugged him, and beredar. No tears. Machokan??? Before that, Mackik Rosiah pesan, if rindu, call aje her home. Wah..Sungguh memahami Makcik itu..

Just right after few minutes, i felt like i really lost something. I felt like i didn't kiss and hug him enough. I felt like i hear him crying... I told Kidd. "Jom amik Oman nak??". Kidd was laughing.."Bi, 30 minit pun x sampai lagi ok. Jom gi amik baju dryclean kat Subang". OK, i better calm down. I kept silent.

Yes, i was keeping myself looking calm, but inside, macam ade gempa bumi. By the time we reached Subang, What's inside could't be kept anymore.....

My hubby was not surprised to see me crying. That was expected. I think all mothers melaluinya would also burst into tears kan? Different with fathers, very rare fathers crying. They handled it in different ways. But if we talked hati ke hati, the mutual is there. "Confirm sedih and miss him so much Bi. Pukul 1 nanti kita call Makcik tanya dia cemana". Wah.. memang x sabardah!!!!

So, at 1.00 pm, i called Makcik. Sangat lega when she told me that Oman's doing well. He's sleeping. Makcik kata, Oman adela nangis-nangis sikit bila nak tido. That's mmg Oman. Nak tido mesti dia berlagu. According to Makcik, Oman dah start kenal orang. Masa first time makcik susukan Oman, he scanned her lama sangat, no smile and rengek2 sikit.but lama-lama ok..
So, bila dah call, i felt so much released. And couldn't wait for 5.30pm. :).
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Alhamdulillah. It's been 4 days and so far he's doing well there. Every lunch hour i'll give Makcik a call to check if Oman is Ok. Makcik Rosiah cakap Oman baby yang senang dijaga. Tipula baby x nangis kan.. Oman akan nangis when he hungry, wet, sleepy and tired. So, when dia kenyang, comfortable & cukup tido, he's a happy little man. Moment paling best when kita jemput dia after keja. Dahla wangi budak tu..cium2 dia sampai merah2..hehe

Oh...I'm waiting for 5.30 pm now. X saba bangat!! :)



28 comments:

  1. YOuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu!!!!
    ni Jue. hehehe. i berjaye khatam bc your blog. bleh tak? ;p
    walopon i'm not a mommy yet, tp i ternanges plak bc entry ni. hohoh.
    neway, td i g intebiu kat telekom. u kat telekom kan skang?

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  2. dear,
    sedihnya. bergenang air mata i tgk photos u nangis *sob*
    anyway, u berjaya jugakkan? proud of you! :)

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  3. Hana: Yeah... xberjaya nak tahan...

    Jue: Wah wah..rajinnyer You menelaah blog i :p.. Eh eh..yeke? Hope-hope dapatla.. boleh jadi geng :)

    Cik Buih: Kene nangisla jugak.. Xtahan. Seb baik cik Armi pujuk bawak makan Selero Negori hari tu. Hihi :)

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  4. TQ Nadine,

    Faaz is so lucky to have his Nani take care of him at his own home. Tapi mesti hari first you pegi keje tinggal dia kat rumah you sedih jugak kan.. huhu.nangis x u??.sedihkan??..

    I letak yang sikit2 tu.. ada yang lagi hebat..tapi i x letak..takot bila i tengok balik..i akan nangis semula.. :p

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  5. Salam nurill,

    ni opie ni...ingat lagi tak?..hehhehe...ingatkan nk jadi silent reader je...tapi tersentuh hati bile tgk u nangis...i pun bergenang gaks air mato..tringat masa first time tinggal anak kat my mother..hehhehehe...naluri ibu kan?..btw, my son is 3 months now..ada satu entry u tuh my hubby kate "eh, mcm ada rupe adam(my son) lak anak member syg..."hahahaha...keep blogging!

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  6. Naaaangis..*blush* tp nangis sorang2 OTW to Cyberjaya. Sampai ofis masuk washroom dulu touch up mana patut :p

    Lepas tu bila colleagues keep asking, "How's your baby?" mula la rase nak nangis balik...iyela, 1st day of work again, surela itu soklan feveret yg ditanya..hihi

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  7. Opie!!! mestila ingat.
    Hihi.. thanks sebab sudi nangis sama-sama. Naluri ibu dah mmg macam ni. :)
    waa, Adam pun your mom jaga ek?..waa beruntungnya kamu semua.
    Nanti leh bawak Adam jumpa Oman. Ramai sungguh kawan-kawan Oman sebaya nih. :)
    Dalam fb ada letak gambar Adam?..nanti Nuurill check out :)

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  8. isy.. sabar k momma. sebak je tgk gambar2 nan sayu itu. mmg agak keberatan gak kan nk hantar anak ke tangan org lain, we pray for the best lah. cewah cm expert je aku ni...tp looks ok la testimoni grandma rosiah tu.

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  9. huhu..teringat masa first day masuk keje lps bersalin dulu...drive smbil nangis smpai x ingat jalan nk pegi keje..tpaksa call hubby mtk hntarkan..harini try hntr damia tmpat baru..balik umah nangis gak...sampai hubby ckp..'pegilah ambik damia..kira half day harini' hehehe..

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  10. alahaiii nuril.. tersentuh nye hati bace entry ni.. teringat zmn meninggalkan zaim dedulu... sob sob.. mmg berat hati sgt.. mase tu sbb berat hati nk hantar nursery, hubby yg jage zaim sebulan.. pastu nak tanak kene jugak la anta ke nursery... but lame-lame dah ok... both mommy and baby... ;) nanti oman pun mesti seronok ramai yg melayan dia, ramai kawan.. ;)

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  11. erm..betul2 memang berat hati nak tinggalkan anak kat org..hr tu yah plan nak hantar nursery..blum hantar lagi dah nangis dulu last2 tak hantar lagi smpai sekarang :(

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  12. Bakal Puan Nariko :)
    Your mother and sapet's mom x working kan? Ade possibilities your future baby diorang jaga kot. Syoknyerr :)

    Wani kan?? Tula tuh..wah sonotnyer half day.. seperti teringin juga :)
    Damia ok x kat nursery baru?

    Bai, hubby jaga sebulan? wah! mithali sungguh. Nuurill hope tempat Nuurill hantar ni ok la sampai Oman dah besar sikit. Aamin :)

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  13. miaa...

    cembeng sungguh kamu..hahahha (jahat tak?)

    takpe, nanti2, sure i rasakan?

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  14. Cda, jahat sungguh kamu!! :)
    Hehehe..tunggula your turn nanti..mia gelakkan pulak...hihihi

    Ala, siannyer Yah. Tambahan Yah baru hadapi dugaan besar kan dengan Adam. Nuurill boleh rasa apa Yah rasa. bawak banyak-banyak bersabar yer Yah. So, sapa jaga Adam dgn Khyra sekarang?

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  15. damia okla tmpat baru..mula2 ms hntr nangis..ms wani pegi ambik dia dh sibuk main dgn kwn2 baru ;)

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  16. tabahkan hati, nuril... dah lama lama nanti ok.. tp biasalah,takkan sama org jaga nk compare ngan kita jaga... for eg, prob fidza ngan babysitter sumayyah yg memang suka pakaikan booties lain ngan baju lain... padahal fidza dh lipat siap siap dh baju ngan booties yg match sekali.... agaknya dia syg kot coz booties still lg bersih. dh nk pakai booties lain bila tuko baju.... geram betul... bukan nk suruh dia basuh pon... tp ibu fidza ckp, benda benda kecik camtu, jgn amik port.... so, redha je la bila balik tengok sumayyah dengan taste bollywood.. baju yellow colour, booties pink colour....

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  17. Alalala.. Hihi. Kelakar pun ade jugak babysitter sumayyah ek. Tapi betullah tu cakap ibu Fidza. Rasanya kalau Nuurill kena macam tu pun mama Nuurill mesti cakap benda yang sama. Yang penting dia jaga anak kita elok-elok.. Macam kes-kes bollywood kene buat-bat tutup mata jelah kan?? hihi

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  18. Alahai....sedihnya baca n3 ni!!tgk gambo nurill nangess tu lg la...hmm mst izu pon samala nti awl bln 7 ni!! skg ni sedey2 jgk tgl babies tp sbb adik jaga tadela berat hati n nanges bgi nk rak lg...huhu..

    Nway, well done to Oman!:)

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  19. Babe, how are you doing right now since the day you send Oman to the babysitter? Coping it?. InsyAllah Oman will be in a good hand.

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  20. Hi Babe,
    Alhamdulillah so far so good. It's been a week plus and i'm still calling that makcik every lunch our to ask how's Oman doing. Will never stop missing him. :)

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  21. i never knew looking at tears could be infectious. i rasa macam nak menangis jugak. keep it together oldman.

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  22. uuuuuuuu... so long i never see a guy's crying. Please..please do that for me..:)..okla..for Oman :)

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  23. erm...sayu nyer tgk u nangis..

    takler nak ckp paper..sbb nnt kena kat diri sendri...huhuhu

    just be tough darling..cos i know u do~

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  24. Melin,
    TQ darling. I suka u. U positive. Nakal. Comel. Kelakar. Kalau x mesti i sunyi kat opis. :P

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  25. hi dear..sad to read your story.but life must go on..hihi.. next my turn plak sending my baby to babbysitter.

    may i know the address of makcik rosiah house?

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