I am so happy that my wish to retrain Oman to forget his swing before it's too late, telah mendapat banyak sokongan dan semangat, baik from this blog, also from my
status in facebook. Thank you everyone!
As i am really looking forward to see this happens, today's morning, as the first day trial, after Oman's bath, i let him laid in his cot after he burped lepas milk milk time. Masa tu his eyes dah half-opened. Dalam mata separu terbuka tu, as immediate i letak je dia dalam cot dia, dia dah hek-hek. So, i pun tepok-tepok bonts dia sambil singing
shh shh shh shh shh shh. 5 minutes after that, mata dia dah wide opened balik. Hek-Hek Oman became louder. Tu tanda dia x puas hati la tu. ISh Oman ni, dah elok-elok ngantuk tadi... Before bath..good mood lagi masa ni :D Masa ni semangat masih kuat. Sebab first day, momma bagi canla sket. I help him up, cuddled and rocked him. Uish, meradang betul dia. Kuat pulak tu badan Oman ni. Meronta-ronta sambil nangis. Masa tu mulut dia dah mencari-cari sesuatu. Lerrr..Lapar lagi kot Oman ni. (Kekadang confuse sebab Oman ni, bila ngantuk dia akan cari 'tu'..nak ngopek) So, i fed him. Masa tgh fed tu, mata dia dah full-closed dah. I waited until he released my nipple and pok-pok his butt. Okay he slept. Dah 5 minutes macam tu, i pun pelan-pelan put him in his cot. Oman ni kuat mengeliat and terkejut-terkejut, so bila dia ngeliat, dah dia jaga balik. Adooooiiii...
Oman in his cot
So, sekali lagi i ulang held him up, fed (kalau x bagi'tu' dia akan nangis giler-giler) and pok-pok....bila dah tengok dia lenadah..again, i tried to put him in his cot. Paling lama bertahan pu 10 minutes la, bila dia ngeliat..dah buka mata balik and cried...
Kesudahannya,
5 TIMES benda yang sama diulang-ulang. Bila dia mengeliat aje..dia akan jaga balik. Last-last i decided to swaddle him. Tapi Oman ni, siang-siang buka nak dibedung. Menjeritlah dia. Determine punya pasal. Momma terpaksa x kesian kat Oman. Huhu..Momma bedung je dia kuat-kuat..bagi 'tu'..terus diam.. bila dia dah lelap..momma put him in his cot..and nahhhhhhh..kali ni berjaya. Ingatkan dapatla dia tido 2 jam ke.... Tapi, after an hour dah bangun :(. Seb baik momma sempat mandi and kemas-kemas bilik sket.
When he woke up tu, masa tu pukul 1.00 pm dah. Momma xmakan lagi. Nak kene masak dulu. Huhu..Enegy pulak dah kurang...Dadda called pesan jangan makan lambat..nanti masuk angin, awak tu bf Oman...tul gak tuh...so, masa ni lah i sedih..sebab terpaksa let Oman tido jugak dalam swing sementara momma nak masak and makan. Dalam hati, kali ni je dia akan masuk buai. Sebab kalau tidak..alamatnyer..i'd skip my lunch la..huhu
Mmg nyenyak bila Oman tido dalam buai. He slept til 4 pm. Momma sempat masak, makan and bukak jobstreet..keke :).
After dia dah bangun dah..i promised myself, ape pun terjadi, xmo put Oman in his swing lagi bila dia nak tido dah lepas ni. Ya Tuhan, kuatkanlah semangatku ini. Penat pun penat lah..yang penting Oman have to learn sleeping wihout that SWING.
Kesian tgk Oman. Memang dia x leh tido. Tido pun lepas tu kejap-kejap (macam process di atas)...Lepas Oman mandi petang..me and him laid on bed sambil i bf dia. Oman tido..momma pun tetido..(Oman still kat 'situ'). I tersedar masa Dadda balik.
So dadda offered himself to tidokan Oman while momma nak mandi, masak for dinner pulak. Keluar je bilik air, dadda tgh dodoikan Oman. Mmg dia hek-hek sket. Tapi Dadda pun kuat semangat.
After momma finished cooking, momma jenguk dadda & Oman kat bilik..waaa...Oman tgh tido dgn nyenyaknyer in his cot. Berbedungla tapi. Xperla. Janji bukan dalam swing. Dadda cakap 2 kali try gak tadi. Mula-mula dah letak, tapi dadda tetiba terbersin, Oman terkejut lalu terbuka matanya. Kekeke.. Oman..Oman..sian anak momma ni.
So, itulah kesahnyer for this first trial. Sekarang, Oman's still sleeping safe and sound. Dah 3 hours plus he's sleeping. Kejap lagi he'll wake up for milk-milk..hopefully, after that dia boleh tido balik dalam cot dia..bukan dalam SWING.. :P
Perjuangan akan diteruskan esok...